Monthly Archives: April 2015


…but do you believe that?

There are such times when we doubt the truth that Christ ever existed. Times when what we’ve been told by our pastors suddenly lose their meanings. At these times, prayer becomes the last thing on our minds—that’s if it’s there in the first place. Sometimes, when caught in this trying and tricky situation, we are tempted to: complain, become offended, doubt, and blaspheme.

In this season of the remembrance of Christ victory over satan and death, I want to remind you of the same truth: Jesus STILL lives. And not just that; HE LIVES IN YOU! Truth is, He knew you were going to doubt His love for you one day. Better truth is, He went on to love you anyway.

Knowing what He was going to pass through just to prove this love, He almost prayed against it. He didn’t just go through all of that for nothing. He always saw one more reason why He had to die—you had to live!

Jesus so loves you that even after He died—and seized power for you—He arose to make sure that you see Him ALIVE (Luke 24:15, 31, 36)! He didn’t just stop there. He showed you his hands and feet (Luke 24:40). Yet, you did not believe (Luke 24:41). Then He had to dine with you (Luke 24:42-43). He even had to help your understanding (Luke 24:45).

He knew that one day you would question His existence. He knew that someday you would disbelieve Him. Then He gave you the Bible, so you could read for yourself all the facts therein (2Tim. 3:16; Heb.4:12). This Word carries the therapies for your growth, healing and inspiration.

He also thought that you would need help with the Testaments. So He sent you The Comforter—His Presence (Jn. 14:16). The Holy Spirit powers God’s Word in us. He reminds us of the promises in the Bible and of Jesus’ love for us (Jn. 14:26; 15:26).

Then He gave His Blood, that through it, you should be saved and spared (Heb. 12:24; 1Peter 1:18-19). By this Blood, your sins were paid for (Mt. 26:28). Destruction skips you, because of the stains of this Blood (Ex. 12:13). Your biggest enemy, the devil, is defeated by this Blood (Rev. 12:11).

Wait a minute! He even gave you His Name. The name JESUS—that comes with His Power—was given to you the day you believed. Armed with this weapon of a name, you could command mountains to move, instruct ailments to pack up and leave, and even stop death—you could do and undo! Equipped with this code of a name, you could also access Heaven, the Throne of GOD, to seek forgiveness and to give thanks. (Mt. 28:18; Acts 3:6-8; Phil. 2:9-11)

Finally, to keep assuring you of His continued existence, He gave you Christians—other people like Him! These precious beings—your pastor, your leaders, your mentors, your parents, or those ordinary people living extraordinary lives—are around you. He is alive in them. And every time you see them, you see Him same way—alive!

As we celebrate the resurrection of Christ, I want you to be reminded again, beyond your mere obligation or desire to celebrate Easter, that HE TRULY LIVES…and IN YOU too. Deliberately remind yourself always of all He went through to prove His existence to you.

I, Uncle P celebrate the Christ in you.
Happy Easter Celebrations, and GOD BLESS YOU.

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Some Thoughts on Relating Well With Others

Hello people!
Happy New Month wishes to you all. I hope your week has been splendid?

I was recently going through my stuff, when I stumbled upon something I had read several months back. Then I thought you guys deserve to know about it. These are key things we should bear in mind while we mingle.

Enjoy, and don’t forget to share with others:
1. Understand/identify your personal desires.
Self knowledge is essential if you hope to relate well to others. You have to know what you want so you know what you’re communicating (and expecting) from others. “Personal desires” applies to both the broad sweeping areas of your life, as well the smaller, more focused areas of your life. Here are some questions that might help you identify your desires:

General: What do I want most out of life?
Specific: How do I expect to be treated when I get home from school?

One way to get to this is to ask: “What offends me?”

2. Examine/evaluate your personal desires.
Here is the NECESSARY next step: is what you want something good, wise, pleasing to God…or is it selfish, wrong, potentially sinful? How do your desires/expectation stand-up to God’s standard? Are your desires in accordance with biblical teaching? Godly wisdom? Are your desires consistent with one another, or are some mutually exclusive?
One way to get to this is to ask: “Should this bother me?”

3. Make as many of the needed changes as possible.
This is where sanctification (growing closer to God and becoming more like Jesus) enters into the picture. God loves us for how we are, but he still wants to correct our errors . . . our selfish desires.
One way to get to this is to ask: “Am I willing to change in this area?”

4. Understand/identify the other person’s desires.
This requires careful observation, a great imagination, and a pure heart. Diligence in relationships considers the other person’s perspective. Ask personal questions, listen to the answers
One way to get to this is to ask:  “What do they want? What offends them?”

5. Respect the other person’s desires.
Respecting another’s wishes can be done actively or passively, both are important. Active living says, how can I meet the other’s needs? Passive living says, how can I keep from offending them?
One way to get to this is to commit to serving others like Christ.

6. Examine/evaluate your decisions, actions, thoughts, words, etc.
Refuse to live life on autopilot, consider DEEPLY the outcome of your actions.
One way to get to this is to ask:  “Have I offended the other person? What should I have done differently? What am I learning from this?”

7. Communicate your personal desires
When appropriate, let others know what you want. Appropriate can be defined with lots of different variables…

If you continually talk about your needs…’re obnoxious.
If your needs are ungodly…..keep them to yourself, and work on becoming more like Christ.
If you talk about your needs without respecting others…..people will avoid you.
If you communicate your needs without examining them…’ll send mixed messages.
If your need is obvious, and you continually remind others…..that’s lame.
If you NEVER communicate your needs…’ll remain distant from others.
One way to get to this is to say:  “This is how I feel. . .; This bothers me . . .”

8. Examine/evaluate the other person’s desires.
As you test your desires, test the desires of others too. God often teaches us through other people. And considering their wants can lead you to greater depths of wisdom. The horrible thing about this step (and the next one), is that typically we tend to over inflate the importance of judging others. IT’S SO MUCH EASIER to judge. But there is a gift to be sifted from the murky mud of judgment: more often than not, when you see something you “don’t like” in others, you probably have that same trait in your own life. Here is the jewel: now you have a new avenue for growth!
One way to get to this is to say: “Should they be offended by xyz? Maybe I do the same thing…”

9. Instruct/correct with gentleness…..when the time is right.
Christians are supposed to impact one another. Our community should be powerful enough to create life change. A good time for “confronting” others would take pages to fully describe, but here is a principle: Don’t waste your words, say something only if it has a chance of accomplishing something good.
One way to get to this is to say: “This is an unfair expectation. . .”

10. Forgive and Repent often.
People aren’t perfect. You aren’t perfect. You will hurt and be hurt. The only once of hope in the hurt/be hurt cycle is to forgive others, and ask for their forgiveness. This doesn’t really belong on this list, since it is titled, “Some Thoughts On Relating To Others,” because this isn’t just a nice idea, it’s a biblical mandate for all believers.
One way to get to this is to say: “I will not hold a grudge….I am sorry.”

I hope that these tips are useful in strengthening your relations with others. What other tips can you suggest? Please comment below.

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